Shortly after my arrival
in India, there was already a buzz around the office due to the upcoming Diwali holiday. Although not an official
national holiday, it is primarily a five-day celebration
observed by Hindus, Jains, and Sikhs alike. Also known as
the “festival of light”, Diwali is celebrated by lighting
small clay oil lamps to welcome Lakshmi, the goddess of
wealth and prosperity, into the home. It might be considered
the Indian Thanksgiving as it is tied to the end of the
harvest and also involves the gathering of families.
Another common site
during Diwali is the geometric pattern called a rangoli.
These designs can either be painted on doorsteps with chalk
or intricately created on the floor with different colored flower
petals to make the home more welcoming to guests. But the
main means to celebrate Diwali is firecrackers known simply
as crackers in India. Leading up to the festival, they were
being sold on every street corner. Our driver boasted that
he would spend a month’s salary on crackers for his two
children. For five days, the neighborhood in which I was
staying was besieged by kids with firecrackers – really loud
firecrackers – that went off day and night. It sounded like
1980's Beirut. I had a phone conference one night,
and the participants thought it was gunfire.
It is relatively rare to
get more than one day off for the festival, but everyone in
the office was discussing the arrival of family. Hindus
tend to have large extended families, so the logistics of
family gatherings during Diwali can be rather stressful.
That said, there was a general excitement, and someone
brought in a box of homemade goodies each day. Most of the
treats were foreign to me, but I latched on to these silver
leaf coated cookies made out of cashew nuts called barfi
(no, I did not know what they were called when I tried
them).
As I was preparing to
settle down for a casual evening with a bottle of Kingfisher
and some EPL, my boss in India called to tell me that his
kids’ school was having a Diwali function and that he had
bought an extra ticket for me and would I like to go? It
was to be a night of Bollywood-style dancing by middle
schoolers. How could I say no? The school was far enough
away that traffic prevented us from seeing all but the last
dance number. The show was followed by a brief tour of the
school which is a fairly massive complex with a pool, an
athletic field in the courtyard, and three separate
buildings for elementary, middle school, and high school
students. It is actually an American school, and eligible
students must have at least one parent who is a foreign
national. Thus, the student body is made up of children of
diplomats, CEOs, and any other foreigner who can afford the
tuition. Despite the Diwali theme, it seemed that the event
was an excuse for the foreign parents to wear traditional
Indian clothes such as saris, sherwanis, and turbans – not a
pretty sight. The evening was capped off by a dinner where
I had a unique Alfredo pasta dish with mushrooms, peppers,
corn, and dill pickles.
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